For many woman, oral sex is how they climax. When done properly, oral sex for women is utterly amazing.
If you haven’t performed oral sex on a woman, or you are doing it and it isn’t pleasing her, read below for some of The Stud`s tips on her to gratify her.
Some tips
- Set the mood and start by kissing and caressing her all over.
- Start by gently licking the vagina, starting at the hole and then working your way up to the clitoris. Make your tongue wide and flat, and make the lick slow and tender. Do this a few times.
- Start to vary the speed and angle of your tongue beginning to focus more on just the clitoris. A mistake often made is that people think it is the vagina that receives the most stimulation, however it is the clitoris. Make sure you focus your attention on the clitoris, varying the speed and pressure of the licking.
- After this, try blowing on the clitoris. This will also heighten her senses and make her crave the feeling of the tongue again.
- Now start to use your finger and insert it into her vagina. Using your fingers at the same time heightens the pleasure for her. Put your finger is as far as it goes, and move it around in a circular motion. Vary it also by moving the finger in and out.
- Keep varying the pressure and speed of your licking. Try burying your face in her vagina so she knows you are completely into her and you are enjoying doing it as much as she is enjoying receiving it.
- If she is enjoying the finger action, try inserting two fingers into the vagina, varying your movements, wiggling your fingers in her, and pulling your fingers in and out.
- Feel around and try and find her G-Spot. For some women this dual action is heavenly. Once your finger is in her pull it towards the bellybutton and play around. Get her to help guide you.
Try different positions…
- To try something different, let the woman sit on your face. This way she can control where she wants your tongue to go, and the pressure she desires.
- Remember to get your hole body involved, hands, caressing, touching - make it a thoroughly erotic experience.
- Women orgasm more easily when there is a rhythm happening. If she is enjoying what you are doing, don’t suddenly change, find the right balance of what she is liking.
- Some women like to have their arsehole licked. A little bit of licking, sucking, rubbing is often a favourite with women. Have a go and see how she responds.
- Sex toys heighten sensitivity and make oral play even more fun. Perhaps she would like a Vibrators or Anal Toys like the pure mini anal plug while you are going down on her. Bullets and Eggs are great toys to use while giving head. You can use the bullets to help vibrate and massage her entire vaginal area, while still using your tongue.
- Remember, you can always do it together in the reliable 69 fashion!!
Is she liking it?
While it is hard to know if she is enjoying it with your face buried in her, there are clear signs if she is enjoying it. If she raises her hips to meet your mouth, or if she moves to gear your mouth towards a certain spot, she is clearly enjoying it. Of course, is she is wet, then she is clearly excited and you are on the right track!
If she moves your head to reach a certain spot, or pushes for more pressure, or lifts your head for a lighter feeling, then she is enjoying it. Don’t be hard on yourself if she doesn’t climax the first time. It is a matter of getting to know her body and what she likes. When she does climax, you will know it and undoubtedly she will have you handcuffed to the bed screaming for more!
