Improve your nookie levels and reach the big O! - The Lazy Stud Adult Shop

Find out how to increase your sex drive and level of satisfaction!

Just do it

Just do it! If you wait for the moment to become aroused you might be waiting for ever! Arousal comes after you’ve started the action so forget waiting for the right moment to rip your lover’s clothes and just do it. It’s easy to make excuses but what does that achieve? The more you make excuses the harder it is to get into a cycle. If you’re making excuses about taking the action to sheets because the action in the sheets is not pleasing you then you need to…

Take charge of your orgasm

Men like to be told what to do - they really do. If it takes you 20, 40 or however many minutes to climax, then communicate with your man and he’ll settle on down for the ride and get himself in a comfortable position. He wants to see you orgasm just as much as you do, so the more guidance you give him the better. Don’t be shy directing him and telling him what you like – the more likely you’ll achieve the end goal – the big O!

Let go!

One of the biggest problems people, especially women, can have is letting go. Performance anxiety, body issues, all those little niggly things can get in the way of having a good time. Once you learn to relax then you’re going to be a much happier person. Not just these things, but actually really letting loose can be a big deal for some people. The more you let go, the more you’ll enjoy yourself and the more chance you’ll reach the end goal – the big O!

Try new things

Nothing worse than stale sex! There is always something you haven't tried, and there is bound to be something one of you always does that could be done differently! Keep this in mind the text time you get saucy in the bedroom. It takes two to tango and if neither of you vary up the action then you’re crying out boredom!

Foreplay

An exciting playtime that is often overlooked by many couples. Foreplay is not over rated, and when the both of you take time to get each other’s juices flowing, you’ll have much more raunchy and steamy sex. Sometimes all it takes is a couple of touches here and there and you’re right in the mood. If he’s not hitting the right spots then don’t be shy and tell him! Why let him do something that you know could be done better? Skipping foreplay means you’re jibbing yourself of some fun and pleasure and most likely better sex. Take foreplay to a new level and try…

Sex Games

Sex games not only break up bedroom boredom, but they also open up the lines of communication and give you an excuse to expand your sexual repertoire. Sex games take you on a sensual journey where you discover and uncover things you and your partner like in the bedroom. Erotic games for two can be just the way to get things happening again in the bedroom if there has been a lull period for a while. Once you’ve got the game out of the way and you’re ready for the raunchy love making session then………

Use tools

Essential bedroom buddies! Sex toys can add that extra spark and excitement during sex! They increase pleasure, add intimacy and even laughter! The more you relax and enjoy yourself the more easy it will be to climax. There are soo many sex toys for couples that please every erogenous zone and cater for every fetish, fantasy and burning desire!

Don’t blame him if he wants sex

The last thing you want to do is get angry at your man for wanting to have sex with you and you’re not in the mood. Take it as a compliment! Sure, they orgasm much more easily than women, but that’s not to say its his fault. If you give him no guidance in what you like then it is hard for him to read your mind. If you put into practice all of the advice above then there’s not way you’ll be pushing him aside!